I agree that going to the theaters nowadays is a real pain. I might go 2 or 3 times a year and only to see big action flicks, but even at that I will wait a couple of weeks after release to go.
I saw Transformers, 5 weeks after it opened, in my semi-local THX certifies theatre and there was 8 other people in the cinema besides myself. It was awesome.
I have 2 kids, 6 and 8, whose movie tastes still are around the level of SpaceJam and are not allowed to watch most of the movies I own (action, sci-fi) so my viewing times are pretty limited.
Have tried complaining at a theatre on occassion but to no avail. As I said, real pain.
Cheers