You have my sympathies. I had a similar situation and understand your pain. I have only one sibling and, unfortunately, my parents are no longer living, so I am the only immediate family he has and I get all of the phone calls etc., when there is an issue. The way we approach things and have lived our lives is like night and day.\n\nI don't have any words of wisdom, unfortunately. It is a difficult situation and I know I haven't always dealt with things the best way possible. I think each person ultimately has to do what they can live with. I know I would have a hard time completely cutting off my brother, but I also know there is only so much I can (or should) do to help.\n\nI wish you the best.