no. 5:
1) Where in Wisconsin are you roughly?
2) When you speak of the "width" of a Mode or a Null, you are actually talking about a grouping of modes or nulls, right? ergo, a mode at 40hz is not terrible by itself but modes at 38hz, 40hz, 42hz, 44hz, and 50hz would be terrible.
Dips (nulls) are not noticable because you don't know what you're not hearing unless you also listen to the same recording in a different room/car/headphones. Almost anyone can hear "boomy" bass once they learn what it sounds like.
I like your comment about 12db being "good". Most people would absolutely balk at buying a speaker that had an average response of +/- 4db instead of the standard 3db, not realizing they could easily have a 30db room mode in the lower end of the midrange in their room...