I ended up with 80 Ohm headphones. They sound good enough. I thought perhaps headphones/HPA must've advanced by leaps and bounds by now.
Switching between headphones and my main speakers last night, it let me know instantly just how dynamic and impactful the main speakers are comparatively. What made me curious was, a lot of people now live solely by HP, IEMs, ear buds etc. The way they talk about them, had me thinking they must really be a comparable experience. Perhaps addition of bass shakers and a good chair might make up for some of the other missing sensory stimulations that speakers provide, don't know.
It also doesn't help that I use my main speakers in rather abrupt near field, which is rather super-headphonic comparatively, minus the cranial (be nice, now) null. The mid-woofers of my speakers are 12" and are known for potent midbass. If I was going between headphones and a steady diet of bookshelf speakers, I bet the differences would be a bit less noticeable.
I must admit, after turning the bass down a bit, it has reduced that false weightiness with the bass being concentrated to such a small sensory area trying to sound life sized. I can tell right now that if I use a HPA, it had better have a decent set of tone controls/EQ.