TLS- have you noticed that extreme highs (musical spectrum) causes an annoying sensation or do you just not hear the higher frequencies?
I guess the answer to this is only from speakers that aren't right, and that's a lot.
Basically I don't get it at live concerts, and I mean concerts without any amplification. My speakers do not annoy me either or cause any distress.
However quite a few people with noise induced damage to the inner ear and or eighth cranial nerve do get high frequency, and often to go with it, amplitude induced tinnitus, which is very annoying for those so afflicted.
Tinnitus is a high pitched sound, usually, that makes its presence intrusive to varying degrees. Often there is a white or pink noise component, which can be independent and coexist. All of these signs are of bad prognostic significance.
In general individuals do not perceive themselves as having hearing difficulty until their turnover frequency is below 2500KHz. In my experience people do not generally seek help until the turnover frequency is around 1500 KHz.
As the turnover frequency drops below 1000Hz people start becoming profoundly deaf. That is why to a lot of patients deafness appears to come on quite quickly.
I don't know if that information helps you or not.