I kept getting thrown off by your not having the cable. I looked up how Anthem ARC works. Evidently it cannot be done without the RS232 cable hooked up at the back of the receiver. I assume you are doing this via the PC's serial port and want to use the laptop USB instead? I apologize for the confusion. I think I'm on it now

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So, do you mean you just listened for more pleasing sound? Like standing in front of the TV sounds better vs. sitting on the couch.
Since you have made changes to the room, it is mandatory to remeasure.
You gave the dimensions earlier (alcohol induced memory loss

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I think it is far enough. I've had mine as close as 4-5" from the wall and did not hear the port chuff (meaning, port was not restricted form normal airflow needs). It becomes something to worry about if you have it too close (like 1-2") since it could effectively changes the port tuning.