Using An SPL Meter and Test Tones...
Once you have the SPL meter, it's pretty simple. Most receiver or pre-pro manuals have instructions for using the internal test tones. If for some reason your receiver/pre-pro does not have internal test tones, you can use a test disc or download test tones online in order to match the level output of all your speakers.
First, you'll want to sit in the middle or 'sweet spot' of your listening area (usually the HT enthusiast's/fanatic's seat

). Next, set your SPL meter to the 'C' weighting and the 'response' setting to 'slow'. Once you've set these two, turn the dial to '70' or '80' and then run the test tones. The objective is to increase or decrease each channel level until it reads as close to '75' dB as possible with the test tones running. Be aware that when most test tones are produced on the receiver or pre/pro, they tend to be very loud and are typically run at reference levels, so brace yourself for the 'holy sh*t that's loud!' reaction if you've never used them before.
After you've set the level for each channel evenly and done some listening, if you find you prefer a bit more dialog, bass or output from your surrounds, increase (or decrease, if preferred) those particular channel levels a bit more to suit your own taste. I'd suggest listening will all channels set to an equal level for a bit to get used to it. Some folks have a tendency to want to crank the bass way louder than it should be. Not saying you shouldn't like more prominent bass, just to consider trying the even channel levels for a day or two before you do increase any channels.
By level matching all the channels, you should have a more even response from your sound field and it should be more uniform in it's presentation.
Any questions, let us know... -TD