And I have no clue what "Iron Man's law" might be so that isn't funny to me. I'm sitting here pretty depressed.
Let's see if this is better than Prozac!
Try this driver.
This driver in that enclosure does not run out of xmax at full power even below 20 Hz. It has over 3 times the xmax of the Dayton driver. In your box it makes for a very tight low Q sub and will have an excellent transient response.
You will need to provide 12 db per octave boost starting at around 45 Hz. This driver will tolerate that.
We have discussed Iron Man's Law often here. It is about the fact that has you reduce enclosure volume you have to pile on the power to get bass output because of huge loss of sensitivity as the frequency drops. There is no way round it. You must have a driver than can take the power and have the excursion not to self destruct.
Since small subs are so ubiquitous people believe there is a lot of energy in the last octave, when in fact there is not. It seems that way because of Iron Man's Law. If you take speakers like mine which follow the rules of physics without trying to force the quart into the pint pot, then reproducing that last octave with in an effortless manner actually requires very little power. Those TLs couple to and encircle the room.
I will confess to holding back until I found what PE had recommended and you accepted their advice without question.
As I have said these topics have been discussed over years in depth by myself and others. For me over 10 years now.
Sometimes the teacher has to sit back and watch and only intervene at the end to prevent the train crash.
I will honestly admit that I'm disappointed to have had to intervene late in the day, to put the train wreck back on the tracks. I'm 72 next birthday and who knows how much longer I will be around. So what I'm saying is that this is a real learning thread.
Lastly if the driver is not a perfect fit, you will have to use your ingenuity to make it fit.
Reverse engineering is always tricky. I went though an awful lot of drivers. Fortunately like some musicians can look at a score and the music plays in their head, I can look at a set of T/S specs and hear the driver, and then model to confirm.