I have the Onkyo 802. While it's nice looking and has some snazzy features. As a player it's a dog turd. In the 3 months I've owned it, it's been in the shop over a month. It's not long for my world.
I would not reccommend Sony either. (Sorry)
I plan to get a Denon 1920
Are you looking for DVD-A or SACD?