I finally decided to go with a Denon 2808ci open box from onecall.

I wanted a good receiver with Audyssey and just couldn't pull the trigger on the Onkyo's considering some of the heat

and front display problems

that I've read about them even though I know that there are many people who are very happy with theirs. Since I really don't need more that 2 HDMI inputs, am not concerned too much about video processing and wanted a reliable, great sounding receiver that plays audio via HDMI, this is the one I chose. Hopefully I will be happy with it's performance considering that it received some great reviews. My weeks of tormenting research is finally done and I feel good about that. Thanks for all of the help!