Hi Peng. I do have my system calibrated to reference levels. I would say the difference is, my speakers are easy to drive 89.5dB, & recommended amplifier power is 30-250wpc. I started out with a 50 wpc Rotel amp, then went to the Denon, & now back to much more powerful separate amps.
I'm not into really measuring everything & studying specs. I simply trust my ears, and my ears noticed that my speakers sound MUCH better being fed 200wpc or more!
Since they are rated for a max of 250wpc, I doubt that they will draw more than the 250 except at short intervals when called for. So that is why I wouldn't notice them being any louder going from 200wpc to 400wpc.
By the same token I also think it makes sense that if the speakers are being fed less power, then some of the finer details of music will likely be muted & go unnoticed. Which is precisely what I discovered when I got the 200wpc amps.
I'm not an electrical engineer & hopefully this makes some sense to you.