My Grandma is dying and it stinks.

mtrycrafts

mtrycrafts

Seriously, I have no life.
She's really been suffering for several months now, but it's take a severe turn for the worse and everyone is making their peace with her. It's hard enough that she's dying, but seeing her in immense pain and discomfort is just hard.

Keep our family in your prayers. This will be my first grandparent to lose and it's starting to really hit me. She was the one who inspired me to become a minister so we are very close.
My condolences as well. Time is a good healer; I lost many family members over the years.
 
lsiberian

lsiberian

Audioholic Overlord
I appreciate the prayers. She is on morphine for the pain and has already started talking to people we don't see. We had a church service in her room this morning and she really enjoyed it. I ended up singing Blessed Assurance in the kitchen lol.:D She asked for me to sing it in the kitchen and then sing it to her. We suspect that endorphines and adrenaline have all rushed into her body for her last few days.
 
gmichael

gmichael

Audioholic Spartan
So sorry to read this. It's never easy. My thoughts will be with you.
 
highfigh

highfigh

Seriously, I have no life.
I appreciate the prayers. She is on morphine for the pain and has already started talking to people we don't see. We had a church service in her room this morning and she really enjoyed it. I ended up singing Blessed Assurance in the kitchen lol.:D She asked for me to sing it in the kitchen and then sing it to her. We suspect that endorphines and adrenaline have all rushed into her body for her last few days.
Seeing people can just be a reaction to the meds. My dad had part of a lung removed and after the surgery, he thought he was reading the newspaper, but it was the acoustic ceiling. They had to strap him down because he was lungeing up to turn the pages. He also saw one of my uncles, who lives in Kansas.

As I posted before, be happy you got to have her around for as long as she has been- I only saw my maternal grandfather a few times and my paternal grandmother had been in a nursing home after a stroke before I was more than about a year old, so I never got to know her, either. My other grandparents had died before I was born and although we had an old couple two doors away, who were like surrogates, I still would have liked knowing/having my grandparents.

Times like these show what we're made of and what we have learned. Hope for the best, expect the worst and tell her that you love her before it's too late.
 
lsiberian

lsiberian

Audioholic Overlord
be happy you got to have her around for as long as she has been. I still would have liked knowing/having my grandparents.
I'm very fortunate as my wife still has all of her grandparents too. Long life seems to be common for us.
 
3db

3db

Audioholic Slumlord
My thoughst and prayers are with you and your grandmother. This sort of thing is never easy for anyone. I'm glad to hear she's at least made comfortable now through pain killers. I lost my Dad about 7 years ago and almost loss my Mom two years ago to cancer so I can relate to what you're going through. Sorry to hear this.
 
lsiberian

lsiberian

Audioholic Overlord
She just passed away and is Paradise waiting for us now. :)

I'm glad her suffering is over.
 
M

markw

Audioholic Overlord
Know she's at rest now. May the rest of you now experience the peace you've been lacking for this period of time.
 
ParadigmDawg

ParadigmDawg

Audioholic Overlord
As sad as it is now, just hold onto all the great memories and know she is in a better place.

Let me know if you need anything.
 
adk highlander

adk highlander

Sith Lord
Sorry to hear of her passing and I am glad you were able to be there with her through the end. Take care.
 
G

Gizmologist

Junior Audioholic
I am sorry for your temporary loss BUT

I know you miss her now but remember the only thing that has passed away is the machine she walked around in. Your Grandma is far from resting in peace. She is enjoying a brand new level of life that is quite wonderful and is the next step on her journey.

Seeing people that we don't just prior to passing on is not a function of meds. They are the guides to escort us to the next section of our lives. When we pass on, we too will be guides for others who come after us.

Dying in this world is only sad for those temporarily left behind. Those that have died are truly living now.

Don't ever doubt that.
 
lsiberian

lsiberian

Audioholic Overlord
I know you miss her now but remember the only thing that has passed away is the machine she walked around in. Your Grandma is far from resting in peace. She is enjoying a brand new level of life that is quite wonderful and is the next step on her journey.

Seeing people that we don't just prior to passing on is not a function of meds. They are the guides to escort us to the next section of our lives. When we pass on, we too will be guides for others who come after us.

Dying in this world is only sad for those temporarily left behind. Those that have died are truly living now.

Don't ever doubt that.
While I respect your beliefs I'd say they are different from mine. I believe my grandmother went to paradise where her spirit waits with the Christians that left before her for the new heaven and new earth which is yet to be realized. I'd say she is now with Jesus because she confessed with her mouth Jesus as Lord and believed God raised him from the dead. Sharing the Gospel of the Christian faith was the very reason for her existence as it is mine.

If you'd like to discuss theology I don't mind doing it in PMs, but I want to respect the Mods request that these discussions be kept to that medium.
 
speakerman39

speakerman39

Audioholic Overlord
Isi, I am so sorry for your loss. My prayer is that the Good Lord wraps his arms around you during this time and offers you the comfort that on HE can give. It is times like this, that we need HIS love. I am sure your Grandmother is with him as we speak. Please be sure to let me know if you need anything or need someone to talk to. I will do my very best to be there for you. May she RIP.



Cheers,

Phil
 
Patrukas777

Patrukas777

Senior Audioholic
I just wanted to tell you that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. It's awesome to hear she is not suffering any longer and is in Paradise :) I feel the same way about my brother and I believe he is in Paradise as well. If you ever need to talk about anything, feel free to message me. I'm here as a friend and as a fellow Christian. May God bless you and your family.
 
mtrycrafts

mtrycrafts

Seriously, I have no life.
..., I still would have liked knowing/having my grandparents.

....
Me too but I guess my father started late in life;):D They went when my father was very young. And, until a few years ago, I didn't even have a picture of them until a cousin made copies for me.
 
ErnieM

ErnieM

Audioholic
Psalm 23 & 40

I grieve with you at your loss. However, I concur that this life is not all that there is. May the Almighty Creator Lord grant you peace and comfort in this.

Psalm 23 and Psalm 40 are especially good for us to meditate on when we suffer.
 
highfigh

highfigh

Seriously, I have no life.
Me too but I guess my father started late in life;):D They went when my father was very young. And, until a few years ago, I didn't even have a picture of them until a cousin made copies for me.
My maternal GM passed when my mom was 9 and my dad was the second last born, so his parents were pretty old by that time. That's the main reason I don't like seeing people having kids too late- they'll never see them as adults and may never see them graduate high school. That's being a parent but only in the biological sense, IMO. It's bad enough to lose parents as an adult but to lose them as a child or teenager is really traumatic. It's not really fair to the kids, at that age.
 

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