Hey Gleonard,
Sounds good! I can't believe Holmes theatre treated you that way
; it will come to haunt them in the end!
I have paradigm speakers myself - mini monitors and titans. I'm saving up for PDR-12 subwoofer- you may want compare this with the PDR-10. Its a bit more expensive of course, but it may be worth it. I've only read that the PDR-10 lacks a bit at the very low end. Ultimately, let your ears decide.
You may want to consider the Pioneer DV-578A (has SACD)- its considered an entry level progressive scan DVD player, but I've read good reviews, video quality is supposed to be excellent-almost on par with benchmark Denon 2200 (i believe thats the model) and the price is right. There should be some threads about this unit on this site.
You may be able to save more on cables- I'm not familiar with the brand you've listed. One thing that I find interesting is that they're selling you RG-6 cable terminated with RCA jacks for component video and not doing the same for the subwoofer cable; buying "subwoofer cable" can be quite expensive- for 4.5M probably over $100.00 is my guess. Decent RG-6 can come in at a mere 25 cents a foot (at least where I buy it).
When I bought my speakers, the saleperson even asked if I wanted slightly flawed (only cosmetic) units. I looked at them, the blemishes were so superficial (can't hardly see) I grabbed them at an unbelievable price. You may want to inquire if they have stock like this.
I hope I didn't complicate your decision, but who knows, if you can lower the cost of cables and possibly the DVD player, you may be able to get the PDR-12.
nuff said,
Good luck, Yama-