I have a couple pair of speakers that I can let run full range, and just use the subs from 45hz down. But one pair of the mains are 12" two-way and are very capable in the mid bass/upper sub bass region. Plus their excursion isn't ridiculous even at higher volume levels so they're not walking all over the mid range. The other pair is 8" three-way design that really only need the subs from 45hz on down as well. At least with what amounts to a music only system. Also, it helps that I am not allergic to actually listening to my speakers, even way off axis from one of the two channels at times.
I don't use any room correction. As a 99% near field music listener, I don't need it. The most I have to do is adjust the gain of the subs depending on what I am listening to. All my bass/room modes end up at the other end of the house where nobody really hangs out and somehow cancel themselves so they don't come back to me. Otherwise, I'd end up putting a lot of resources and compromises for an audience elsewhere in the immediate space that doesn't exist.
It's funny in a way. I had a friend who was convinced that I was getting away with minimal EQ because I was just used to a crappy setup, even though I have been doing this about 30 more years than he has. All he has ever known is auto room correction. It was not until he tried mine that he had to eat his own words, and then promptly went home and set to work on putting up second system nearly exactly as my own. Now to hear him talk, you would think he invented it.
You are in general correct. Often in human endeavors current wisdom is so often wrong.
In this era if bass management and boat loads of Eq, it is actually insane.
Many speakers can handle the full range.
The only speakers in my AV room I crossover are the 6" ceiling speakers.
The rest run full range and have variable BSC, although the surrounds just have two settings whereas all the others have continuously variable BSC.
The major beef I have with the sub bass management issue, is that the fundamental frequencies and harmonics are massively separated in time and therefore phase, which are two different ways of saying the same thing, These time shifts come not only form physical separation but crossover phase shifts. Sure you can fudge this from some degree with the set up distance measuring but only for one spot.
If you do this a double bass and cello will not sound correct, and drums will not have their correct transient response preserved. This absolutely will not do for the critical listener.
That is why I have an integrated design. I let my mids even roll off naturally and they do fine even at power. First order minimal phase crossovers are used in the BSC circuit, and there is close to minimal phase condition in the high pass of the bass line drivers.
The room I admit is custom and has optimal dimension ratios.
No, I do not hear my room. I hear the location, and I hear the the Philharmonie, Orchestra Halls in Minneapolis and Detroit and so on. They all sound very accurate.
I also attend local concerts and many are streamed and I can hear the concert that I attended.
The sound in this room is virtually identical to what I heard at the concerts. I have to say that the Dolby upmixer does a really job, realistically preserving the ring of the halls and churches.