Well, I have been listening to quite a few speakers and it seems like the ones I like at all are insanely expensive. Even some of the expensive ones sound horrible, even after I sat there and played with the tone or EQ for about an hour. I never heard any that really grabbed me that were small enough for the room (12'X12'), and most were insanely hard sounding. I heard one pair that was a bit too laid back, can't remember the brand even, but at $599 each, it wasn't going to happen. Besides, that place annoys the hell out of me.
I kind of figured that a lot of it was due to the store set ups, most of which are pretty sad, at best. I thought since I was able to tolerate the Optimus 77's, anything would sound better, and in a lot of ways they do. I toed them out, and raised them up above the TV to get them off axis, and it helped somewhat, but on music they really annoy me. On movies and TV, they aren't that bad, hot, but tolerable at least so far.
An EQ might help, and I have two old Sonex sheets in a box someplace, and maybe, if they havent fallen apart, I will put them behind the speakers and see what that does. I bet they are gone though, the other sheets I bought at the same time have basically disintegrated.
Just as a goof, I just took a couple of old black socks and put them in between the cabinet and the grills, like a blindfold over the tweeter. I may be on to something here. With the socks, I don't have to run so much treble cut, so the midrange sounds pretty decent. At normal volume, I can still understand dialog on the other side of the house without any problem, so the highs are still there in force. It actually sounds good, too good.
Well, thanks for the replies..