I feel so violated!

Soundman

Soundman

Audioholic Field Marshall
Soundman

I'm sorry to hear how your relatives "fawked" you over with your sound system. I would not get bent out of shape from the ribbing from these guys about how good or bad your system is. Sounds liek your happy with it and thats all that really counts. Ignore their verbal shite.

However, the way they played with your system is inexecusable. Only jealous morons would behave like that. If they have keys to your house, take them back from them, tell them exactly why you are taking the keys back (lay the guilt trip on them) and rely on a friend or a good neighbour for the next time. The fact that you would take your keys away from them speaks volumes to them of how you lost total respect/trust for/of them. If they don't return the keys, change the locks and give your best friend or trusted neighbour your key.

I'm sorry you had to go through this.
Fortunately, neither of them have a key. My sister is the only one that had a key while she was staying there.
 
Halon451

Halon451

Audioholic Samurai
Wow, sorry this happened Soundman, but like you said, good thing they didn't cause any irreversible damage to your system. I have become very protective of my humble little setup, and as you also stated - this is the place where most of the folks here can completely sympathize with your concerns over this event. People like your in-laws, and most of the average "Plug-and-Play" consumers out there simply don't realize the time, money and effort that many of us have put into our systems, and that, for some - it's almost a work of art, one's personal masterpiece, if you will, in Home Electronics. I have a simple setup, in comparison, but I still limit those who operate it to only myself and the wife, who I have a.) Trained, trained and re-trained, and b.) gotten a nice Logitech Harmony remote, so that it actually does all the work for her and she doesn't have to figure out how to turn anything on or off. :D

Their dangerous monkeying around with your system just clearly shows that they do not get what it is that we all here sometimes take for granted. ;)
 
Soundman

Soundman

Audioholic Field Marshall
Wow, sorry this happened Soundman, but like you said, good thing they didn't cause any irreversible damage to your system. I have become very protective of my humble little setup, and as you also stated - this is the place where most of the folks here can completely sympathize with your concerns over this event. People like your in-laws, and most of the average "Plug-and-Play" consumers out there simply don't realize the time, money and effort that many of us have put into our systems, and that, for some - it's almost a work of art, one's personal masterpiece, if you will, in Home Electronics. I have a simple setup, in comparison, but I still limit those who operate it to only myself and the wife, who I have a.) Trained, trained and re-trained, and b.) gotten a nice Logitech Harmony remote, so that it actually does all the work for her and she doesn't have to figure out how to turn anything on or off. :D

Their dangerous monkeying around with your system just clearly shows that they do not get what it is that we all here sometimes take for granted. ;)
Nicely said. Thanks! :)
 
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armaraas

Full Audioholic
Sorry to hear about what happened, and glad to hear nothing was broken. I would really chalk up their comments to ignorance/jealousy. They probably wish they had such nice toys to play with.
Nice timing on this though...
We're going on a cruise for a week and my wife's brother is going to be house sitting our dogs for us starting next week. I keep thinking things won't be working or will be broken when we get back, but the bigger concern is that the other brother is not supposed to come here- he just got out of jail and is known to steal from his own mom and was intent on 'helping' with the dog sitting. So I'm more concerned we'll come home to an empty house since we really have no way of keeping him from showing up, or maybe unknown charges on credit cards, empty bank accounts...I'm gonna have a blast on this vacation...
 
Soundman

Soundman

Audioholic Field Marshall
Sorry to hear about what happened, and glad to hear nothing was broken. I would really chalk up their comments to ignorance/jealousy. They probably wish they had such nice toys to play with.
Nice timing on this though...
We're going on a cruise for a week and my wife's brother is going to be house sitting our dogs for us starting next week. I keep thinking things won't be working or will be broken when we get back, but the bigger concern is that the other brother is not supposed to come here- he just got out of jail and is known to steal from his own mom and was intent on 'helping' with the dog sitting. So I'm more concerned we'll come home to an empty house since we really have no way of keeping him from showing up, or maybe unknown charges on credit cards, empty bank accounts...I'm gonna have a blast on this vacation...
Wow! I think I would be nervous about everything if I were you.
 
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jostenmeat

Audioholic Spartan
We're going on a cruise for a week and my wife's brother is going to be house sitting our dogs for us starting next week. I keep thinking things won't be working or will be broken when we get back, but the bigger concern is that the other brother is not supposed to come here- he just got out of jail and is known to steal from his own mom and was intent on 'helping' with the dog sitting. So I'm more concerned we'll come home to an empty house since we really have no way of keeping him from showing up, or maybe unknown charges on credit cards, empty bank accounts...I'm gonna have a blast on this vacation...
Fk that, man. Stay home if you can't keep that guy away. Anyone who steals from their own mom simply cannot be trusted. Period.

Find a different dog sitter. There are paid services for that, you know. And I bet your dog will like the experienced person better.
 
Alex2507

Alex2507

Audioholic Slumlord
Fk that, man. Stay home if you can't keep that guy away. Anyone who steals from their own mom simply cannot be trusted. Period.

Find a different dog sitter. There are paid services for that, you know. And I bet your dog will like the experienced person better.
Or stay home.
 
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tattoo_Dan

tattoo_Dan

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We're going on a cruise for a week and my wife's brother is going to be house sitting our dogs for us starting next week. I keep thinking things won't be working or will be broken when we get back, but the bigger concern is that the other brother is not supposed to come here- he just got out of jail and is known to steal from his own mom and was intent on 'helping' with the dog sitting. So I'm more concerned we'll come home to an empty house since we really have no way of keeping him from showing up, or maybe unknown charges on credit cards, empty bank accounts...I'm gonna have a blast on this vacation...
when we can't use our "trusted" little old lady dog sitter neighbor,we use one of two licensed bonded and trusted boarding kennels for our dog,$19 per day and well worth it !
 
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armaraas

Full Audioholic
Fk that, man. Stay home if you can't keep that guy away. Anyone who steals from their own mom simply cannot be trusted. Period.

Find a different dog sitter. There are paid services for that, you know. And I bet your dog will like the experienced person better.
I know...
It's unfortunately going to be a no win situation. How do you tell your wife you don't want her brothers at your house because you don't trust them? I actually wanted to board the dogs with the vet, even though they need to be sedated to keep them calm, figured the vet would be ideal if something happened to them. But she had talked to her bother without telling me and he agreed to it.

We kind of figured the recently released brother might end up back in jail before our vacation came up, but so far no dice. The dog sitting one knows we don't want him here and if he can get here without him tagging along, we should be alright then (he has no means of transportation to get here otherwise and it's a 3 hour trip).
 
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armaraas

Full Audioholic
when we can't use our "trusted" little old lady dog sitter neighbor,we use one of two licensed bonded and trusted boarding kennels for our dog,$19 per day and well worth it !
We've used one before that went ok, but have heard from others that the place has kind of gone downhill lately. So my wife checked out a couple of other nearby and didn't like them at all (not very clean, small), so that's when she had the idea of her brother. We are out of the city a bit and in a smaller town, so there are not a lot of kennels to choose from.
Normally I have family I could pawn a dog or two off on too, but they have a vacation overlapping with ours.

Hopefully I'm just overreacting.
 
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