You know B. you make a compelling case for the PS3, maybe I should stop, smell the coffee and spring for a PS3, I'm of the camp that the PS3 is "just" a game console, maybe I should reasses my prejudice.
I can tell you that I've read a lot of very similar statements, but I don't let myself be the judge. I got a PS3 for Blu-ray above all else. Sure I've got a couple of games, but I bought it for my wife and 3 year old and FAMILY to use for movies first and foremost.
I got it opening week with zero expectations as a complete gamble.
But, what I found was that it just is incredibly easy to use.
Send the 3 year old up to it with a disc in hand and he can stick it in the slot. The PS3 turns on and starts playback automatically. No opening the tray, no real 'booting up' time like with my HD-A2 player... or even my DVD player.
So, it turns on, and starts disc playback immediately.
Then I use the NYKO Blue Wave remote to control it via a Crestron control system.
I had no belief when I got my PS3 that I would use it for more than a few months before getting a stand alone. Here I am 18 months later thinking that it may be another 18 months before I add a stand alone player to my system.
I take products on a product by product basis - so if it was lousy, I would happily say so. Likewise, you would read in magazines about how it's lousy, or online, or elsewhere. While gamers are definitely quick to point out the failings of the console, movie lovers just don't.
I think that's the biggest thing - you find almost nobody who owns one, who uses it for movies, complaining about it. Yet, if it did suck, you know these people would let you know exactly what was bad.
The two biggest failures of the PS3?
It looks like a gaming piece and the shape forces it to sit at the top of the equipment stack, or on it's own shelf. (which is where it should be anyway)
It doesn't have integrated IR.