Sure, if their specs say 50 and you get bench tests routinely showing 80X2, 5X50 and 7x45, you should definitely think that way but at the end of the day you may get more from your Sony that you pay about the same money for. Another factor is that over various forums you have people telling you the same thing over and over again that HK typically puts out more real power than what they show on paper. That, I suspect, may have prepared you psychologically to think that way also.
Now let's look at something objectively. The fact is that bench tests cannot be taken to the bank either, as the test results may depend on how the tests are conducted. For example, when they do ACD test, do they always hold the power supply voltage constant, or do they simply let it drops as the current demand increases during the ACD and/or low impedance tests?
You cited the poor ACD showing of your Sony ES in the HT mag test but if you take a look of the bench tests done by the British, e.g. the H.C.C. you may be happier with your Sony because even a non ES model came up with decent numbers (5X112W into 8 ohms at 0.5% THD).
http://www.homecinemachoice.com/reviews/new_reviews/sony+str+dg820+av+receiver+24+11+08
http://www.homecinemachoice.com/reviews/reviews_archive/Sony+AV+Receiver+-+STR-DA5300ES
The 5300ES actually managed 5X126W into 4 ohms, 5X112W into 8 ohms, 2X140W into 8 ohms, fidelity firewall 125W!! It beats the 40 lb+ HK AVR635 in all categories of tests!!!
http://www.homecinemachoice.com/node/6012
HKAVR635: 5X125W into 4 ohms, 5X90W into 9 ohms, 2X90W into 8 ohms, fidelity firewall 100W into 8 ohms.
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