Sounds like a beautiful home up there. I'm on the opposite side of life you are though, I just had twins in December. Perhaps we can connect some time when you're down in the metro.
I think if I'm in the right price bracket for decent build quality I can digest what features I want at this point in a receiver. Just gotta decide how much I want sitting on my credit card. Hard to know what features I'm going to want in three years too is half the problem.