Shadow, I know what your saying, but I think its more like Both are good, but some sub designs are a bit better for one scenario then others... I think it also lies greatly on the design of the driver as well as the design...
In my bedroom, I have had both the SVS PB12 Plus and now have replaced that with a JL F112, and I have A/B'd them extensively.
The SVS is fantastic in both territories music/movies, but I think it excels at movies where low extension seriously adds to the experience. The SVS has a touch more distortion and bit less control which really can seriously shake things up. I actually like a bit of distortion in a sub to a degree for HT. In my great room I have Dual SVS Plus/2's and they are amazing for HT, but they just have a touch more distortion then I prefer for music, but they will scare the hell out of you.....
The JL F112 on the other hand, is quite simply amazing for music, it is articulate, incredibly powerful, totally controlled and graceful... which to me is what I prefer for music. It also goes really low for a sealed sub as small as it is, easily into the teens, but the rolloff is quite steep, therefore limiting the output in the teens and the 20hz range but the control and remarkable accuracy is there for musical range 30hz on up to 80hz... possibly above, if not crossed over as low. The power coupled with the incredible driver control and excursion are what provide the massive output of this sub, seriously its awe inspiring. JL really hit a bullseye with their Fathom line. With HT though, the subs restrictions are acknowledged easily in low output, where the early rolloff of a sealed sub has its restrictions and the protection limiters start to kick in and it hesitates at extremely low output.
There are only a few drivers that will outdo the build quality of a JL driver like the W7, TC-Sounds makes/made some that have the control, linearity, dynamics, all put together with extreme excursion make them the best drivers made to date... I give you the TC-Sounds/Audiopulse LMS-5400. There is yet to be a driver made that has low distortion and can maintain its linearity while still providing high excursion that produced the cleanest bass to date. (of coarse depending on the box design).
I have 2 TC-Sounds drivers, that I have modelled extensively, and will be building to replace my SVS Plus/2's.
Here are 2 different designs of the same driver, one sealed and one ported/vented tuned to 15hz. Notice the sealed and how early it starts to roll off, compared to the ported. Ported has huge output all the way down to just below 20hz. With a driver in a properly designed ported/vented box that has incredible control and enough amplification, one could achieve both, an incredibly musical sub, as well as scary as hell for HT that will shake things but still maintain contol the way it was meant in the first place...
I'm hoping to achieve that with my upcoming ported build with these drivers.
Ported/Vented
Sealed