latest update:
After a lot of soul searching, I bit the bullet and went with a 5.1 Rocket set up with RS850,RS450,RSC200, and the MFW-15 (will be getting the x-s load speaker for free). Was a little over my budget but I hope its well worth it. I was looking really hard on the Swan and Aperion. I love a clear, crisp sound without overly bright and my understanding was that Swans are slightly brighter and might fit my taste better but I went ahead with the Rockets, so I hope i wont be disappointed with the Rockets.
I considered the Sony KDS60A3000 when it was on sale for $1600 but I really wanted the "big picture" so I backed out. Consider the Panasonic AX200U and the Mits HC1500 because I will be using a pj as a tv and they have higher lumens but when I saw the HD70 for 40% off retail price, I couldn't refuse.
Seems like Onkyo 805 will be the choice of receiver unless someone else have any better ideas. Looked at one of the HKs and Pioneer Elite VSX-92TXH. Currently, Elite cost alot more and the HKs seem to have some build quality issue.
Anyway, thanks everyone. I hope to be enjoying my new HT soon.