This, at least is explanatory. Thank you. Still no easy task tho. One of the openings from my listening area is to a 10 x 12' room. The opening is an archway that's 62" wide so I can't really ignore it.
After that I have a hallway. The hallway is also definitely getting pressurized. It has a dogleg in it, but I can feel and clearly hear the bass all the way back to the end of it (in the bedrooms too if I open the doors, which I normally don't). If I could close it off I suspect it would have massive effect on how my subwoofers behave. Wouldn't I want to include it?
I get what you're saying about roughing it out a little and ignoring a few things is okay, but I have a lot of uneven parallel surfaces and a dogleg hallway. I don't have a single wall that's straight for its entire run. Big pop outs for archways, a pop out for the pantry with the fridge right beside it (it's a great room layout with a kitchen behind me), big openings, windows, a sliding glass door and more. It's a lot to account for or try to guesstimate. And if I get it wrong...
Or use REW (which still required time and effort, but not nearly as much as taking physical measurements and crunching numbers on the back of an envelope) and get close to the same results. What if my fudging and guesstimating while crunching numbers gives me something completely wrong? I'd be banging my head off the wall!
At least with rew I can see and hear an improvement. There's no doubt about it, and based on the room's behavior to my adjustments I think I know where most of my room modes are. That's where I went with placement and distance settings instead of peq. I was able to improve things with placement, but still there when I take measurements. The "trouble spots" are always in the same bands.
I'd also repeat Bill's question, what should a graph of a good response look like? I did generate waterfalls, spectrum, etc. also.
Phew. I swear I meant to do just a short response! I'm not challenging, I'm asking. I really want to know.