Well, thanks a lot. I'll try that. Rubber keys do make contact over a layer of graphite, do they not?
This Graphit33 is what I have in mind:
It is a spray that creates a conductive surface.
My concern with the spray is how well it would/would not adhere to the existing surface. It may cause more problems and debris than it would fix. If you go that route, then do some testing of your own on something other than the remote, before you proceed down that path.
I have always heard this part called "carbon pads". Graphite is a very particular type carbon structure, and I cannot say for certain that the "carbon pads" are really "graphite pads".
I'm telling you, follow the procedures that I outlined above. I have had success with this many times over the years for gaming controllers, and these devices continuously see heavier abuse especially from children.
I have yet to come across a single instance where the carbon pads have been worn completely away. I have seen instances where the copper traces on the PCB have shown decades of wear and tear, but the carbon pads were still fine.