i'm going to start a scam.
i'll send MY money to a person selling something (doesn't matter if i need it or not).
pretend i did not receive it and hope that the seller is gullible enough to return my money to me.
now, i'm sure i'll be a successful scammer as long as there are at least 2 people here on AH i can sell my story to that i did not receive the product.
/sarcasm off
i'm sorry ... it just doesn't fly.
i'm sure both parties here are NOT scammers. the package most probably got lost, but it really is the responsibility of the seller to get it to the buyer's hands.
otherwise, it will bring us to my second planned scam:
"sending products to customers (who did not explicitly request insurance) by tying it to the back of a sea turtle"