Awesome!!! Thanks for the input. I am going to try and I mean try to have my buddy bring his XPA-2 over to see the difference between that and my XPA-3 and start from there. I too am a person who likes to get quality for their money, I am a teacher and on a teacher's salary you can't afford the expensive stuff. Yes my speakers are expensive (at least to me) but I am still paying for them and will be for quite sometime.
Trust me, don't think I'm not going to keep my eyes peeled for a steal on a Bryston/Classe/Anthem etc. If something pops up I might jump on it. But like I said, I am just getting into this audio stuff and I gotta say, "I'm hooked!" Although my fiance begs to differ. She always asks the question, "Why do you need more speakers?" My response, "It's not a matter of needing more, but a matter of needing better!"
Again I really appreciate everybody's thoughts and I apologize about my gripe before, that just might be my own audio frustrations of always trying to get better, and trust me, I know it can be a losing battle with audio b/c there is always going to be something better out there!
Thanks again,
jb