I kind of feel the same way about my Denon vs Acurus: I felt like the Denon was less fatiguing. The volume I listen to (~ 85dB A) is about the same with both amps. But for some reasons (placebo or not) I just feel like the Denon is less fatiguing. With the Acurus I felt a little exhausted after 2 hrs, but with the Denon I could listen for 4 hrs and not be exhausted.
Like you said, it's very SUBJECTIVE, and I wouldn't go against the editors of The Audio Critic or Audioholics. But the important thing is to like what we HEAR and stick with what we PREFER, even if it's all subjective.