Crazy Sister / Help me out!

[Adam]

I'm still waiting for pictures and a phone number.

BTW, if I date/marry her, do I become eligible for the Sensi family bail out program? I think that a crazy woman should come with a dowry at the least.

 

[Tarub]

Sensi, is your sister hot?

 

[MidnightSensi]

Been crazy busy... got work during the day, helping my dad move after work from like 6-10:30, then dj'ing till early in the morning, then gotta do it all over again.

So, I'll be MIA for a few days... I'll come back with an update though!

Sensi, is your sister hot?

A wise man once told me "the f**king you get isn't worth the f**king you get."

She might be amazing, but after about 5 minutes you'd be ready to find someone else.

 

[Adam]

Ouch. Get us all interested in your sister, then take a leave of absence.

 

[jamie2112]

Hey, I need some advice.

My sister has had problems with work, so, my dad and I have been helping her with money. She has a new job now, but, it doesn't pay enough for her to live the way she is used to. So, we are still helping her out. But, she is pretty selfish and when she comes over she only talks about her new job and both my dad and I have gotten pretty sick of it. She gets mad that we don't say how great her new job is... but, its just kinda hard to get too excited about it since we have to still pay for most her stuff.

It's what family does, but, my dad is moving out of his house because he is doing some work on it, so I've been helping him prepare to move. He asked her to come over and help and she has avoided it and recently just said "no, I'm busy." So, we only get calls when its for money.

Anyone else had a family member like this?

I'm kinda stuck because on one hand I want to help, but on the other in return she could help my old man and not be so selfish and just talk about herself all the time.

She is older than me (I'm 23, she is 28), but, still can't figure out a budget for herself, how to do basic things like buy a car, or insurance, etc. Everything is done by either my dad or I. I feel like we kinda created a monster because she hasn't really had to do anything on her own.

Both of us are pretty fed up, but, its fam' ..ya know?!

Sorry for the long post, just had to vent. Any advice would be appreciated....

Damn Sensi this just slipped by me. I would STOP paying for her stuff. She is 28 years old dammit. You and your da have done enough for the ungrateful woman. She will not change until she has to. Right now she is coasting along with your dads and your cash. Its total Bull if you ask me. I would cut her off so freakin fast it would even make my head spin.People like your sister take advantage of everyone around them I have seen it countless times and you need to be strong and cut her off brother. I can't believe I didn't see this till now. I hope it gets better for you Sensi......

 

[jamie2112]

Maybe. I'll look it up for you. Are you into 51 year old's who put make-up on with a spatchula?
You couldn't possibly be any worse than the guys she's been hooking up with. At least you like good audio.

I am dyin here....LMFAO......

 

[agarwalro]

Personally, I have not had the misfortune of having to deal with such a person. I understand that this is (was) a serious thread and my heart goes out to some of the posters here, but some of you have also found humor in your tough situation. I salute you and thank you for making my day by reinforcing the fact that I have it good. I need a kick in my behind every once in a while to remind myself that things could be worse and I should be happy with what I have (but not content/ complacent since then there would be no upgraditis or tweakitis either).

 

[Alex2507]

She might be amazing, but after about 5 minutes you'd be ready to find someone else.

Sounds like she's hot.
Buy her a ticket to anywhere in Arizona and you'll never hear from her again.
You'll probably never hear from Adam either.



He'll pull a Harald.

 

[Tarub]

Sounds like she's hot.
Buy her a ticket to anywhere in Arizona and you'll never hear from her again.
You'll probably never hear from Adam either.



He'll pull a Harald.

If she is super hot....I can be a big help.

If she is hot............I can help.

If she is so so.........I can lend a hand.

If she NOT...............I can give some discount coupons and refferals.

 

[Alex2507]

I don't want to get too rude, it is his sister.

You people have some messed up families. My family is perfect. I am their problem.

 

[Adam]

He'll pull a Harald.

I'd probably pull something.

[Badum tish.]

 

[Tarub]

I don't want to get too rude, it is his sister.

You people have some messed up families. My family is perfect. I am their problem.

Monkey problem?

 

[MatthewB.]

I truly believe that ALL women are insane, it's just each come with a varying degree as to how much. I also believe that how insane they are is relative to how good looking they are.

Super Hot = Complete nutjob w/ Drama= You don't mind so much, but jealousy rate high and chances are she's cheating on you
Hot = Much Drama = You always wonder if it's worth it
Average = Little Drama = Can handle it, but hey there's always something on the side (see upper two)
Coyote Ugly = Yeah your buds will tease you, but the sex is awesome and very little drama, always naggin about marriage.
Beer Gogglin Beasty Ugly - Severe drama as she will be the stalker type, Your buds won't even acknowledge you exist. Thank God for booze and paper bags. Relocation and name change may be neccesary.

 

[Wafflesomd]

I'm kind of similar to be honest. I quit my job last year as I was fed up with being treated like crap. Too bad shortly after the economy went to total crap (did not plan that one very well). I've been trying to get a job since last October and it's pretty hard. I've been to six interviews since, and no luck.

At one point I basically just stopped trying, sat around the house and smoked,... stuff

Though I became sick of myself and I'm trying to turn things around. It's hard convincing my parents that I'm doing so. I've got some nice debt to pay off, and some other bills that need to be paid. My parents have been trying to help me out, but there isn't much they can do.

Anyways. I quit smoking, I've lost 20lbs., and I'm getting back to school (FAFSA is a great thing).

I hope I don't get kicked out, but I wouldn't blame them. Here's to hoping that things start looking up.

As for the girl, I'd tell her what's up. At 28 I would expect more.

 

[lsiberian]

I truly believe that ALL women are insane, it's just each come with a varying degree as to how much. I also believe that how insane they are is relative to how good looking they are.

Super Hot = Complete nutjob w/ Drama= You don't mind so much, but jealousy rate high and chances are she's cheating on you
Hot = Much Drama = You always wonder if it's worth it
Average = Little Drama = Can handle it, but hey there's always something on the side (see upper two)
Coyote Ugly = Yeah your buds will tease you, but the sex is awesome and very little drama, always naggin about marriage.
Beer Gogglin Beasty Ugly - Severe drama as she will be the stalker type, Your buds won't even acknowledge you exist. Thank God for booze and paper bags. Relocation and name change may be neccesary.

If they weren't crazy we wouldn't be .....

well you get the idea.

 

[MatthewB.]

Isiberian, there are many things a women will do that I will never understand.

1. They will remember an incident that happened 20 years ago, when a man won't recall what he had last night for dinner.
2. They'll spend thousands on shoes, when a man has two pair. Dress and sneakers.
3. A women will sleep with her best friends man just becasue she's jealous and vengeful. A man will ask permission from his best friend if it's okay after they break up. (Normally a two day grace period is acceptable.)
4. A women will spend hours on a phone discussing something that takes a man 30 seconds.
5. A women will get dressed up to go to Circle K, a man would go in his boxers and T-shirt if he could.

 

[lsiberian]

Isiberian, there are many things a women will do that I will never understand.

1. They will remember an incident that happened 20 years ago, when a man won't recall what he had last night for dinner.
2. They'll spend thousands on shoes, when a man has two pair. Dress and sneakers.
3. A women will sleep with her best friends man just becasue she's jealous and vengeful. A man will ask permission from his best friend if it's okay after they break up. (Normally a two day grace period is acceptable.)
4. A women will spend hours on a phone discussing something that takes a man 30 seconds.
5. A women will get dressed up to go to Circle K, a man would go in his boxers and T-shirt if he could.

1. Do you remember your first stereo system? Do you remember you first car? Do you remember the first time you got some?
(IOTW men remember different stuff)

2. She can have as many shoes as she wants as long as I can spend 1000s on speakers.

3. Some woman not as many as you would think. Some woman do have class.

4. We spend hours on this forum discussing speakers. It takes a woman 30 seconds to buy them.

5. Men are a attracted to good looking women. Women don't care as long as he puts out what she wants.

Now if you don't like women that's fine. There are plenty of men out there too.

 

[MatthewB.]

6. A women thinks the "silent treatment" is a punishment.
7. A women constantly asks why she never can find a "nice guy" but when she finds one, she just wants to be friends and continues to date asshats.
8. A women will seriously ask if this pair of jeans makes her arse look fat. A man will immediatly think, "it ain't the jeans honey."
9. A women at a bar will meet a man and then contemplate, ask approval from her friends, discuss in length what the pros and cons of said male are and what his financial, stability, romance potential and marriage will be like all before even saying hi to the guy. A guy just wonders if she'll swallow.
10. and finally Romance movies vs Action how can they not see that Action movies are infinately far superior.

 

[MatthewB.]

Isiberian, LMAO um no, not into guys. I constantly tease women because almost my entire family is female, I work in a female dominated industry and when given the chance I try to implement as much testosterone as I can. I actually love women except they drive me crazy with their thought process. There are times I look at my GF after she has made a comment and wonder "WTF?" Seriously men would be lost without women to put us in our place.

reminds me of something my father once said to me. "Son, money can't buy you love." my response, "No, but it can sure rent it for awhile."

 

[lsiberian]

6. A women thinks the "silent treatment" is a punishment.
7. A women constantly asks why she never can find a "nice guy" but when she finds one, she just wants to be friends and continues to date asshats.
8. A women will seriously ask if this pair of jeans makes her arse look fat. A man will immediatly think, "it ain't the jeans honey."
9. A women at a bar will meet a man and then contemplate, ask approval from her friends, discuss in length what the pros and cons of said male are and what his financial, stability, romance potential and marriage will be like all before even saying hi to the guy. A guy just wonders if she'll swallow.
10. and finally Romance movies vs Action how can they not see that Action movies are infinately far superior.

6. I just harass mine until she talks.
7. If your getting that you gotta change your approach. Women need to be bossed around not just sweet talked.
8. This is never responded to with words only with actions. If you jump her at that point you might just get a standing appointment.
9. lol
10. Agreed. My lady watches Gilmore Girls. Puke. I watch Home Improvement. Funny show. Way funnier now.

Additions
11. A woman doesn't ever know what she wants, but expects you too.
12. A woman hands you the remote, but you better watch her shows or else.
13. Woman are simple to handle, hard to deal with.
14. You may miss the NBA finals, but you will win the title if you do.
15. Women don't know how to cross the street.