I may have missed it so this may be a redundant question. Have you tried using the test tones in the receiver and your SPL meter to volume match your speakers (pgs. 58,61)? Many, including myself, set the sub level at 0dB in the receiver and adjust the sub’s gain to the desired SPL.
BTW, “pure direct” does not allow any signal to the sub. Pg 37 Notes
What happens if you set the X-over in the receiver to 40Hz? This should allow the M60s to produce the frequencies above 40Hz.