greggp2 said:
Seriously though, I'm screwed on my reflection points. One 1/2 of my room has a bar that opens to my kitchen... That wall is pretty much out for panels. The other, the reflection point is a huge window.. I can put curtains/panels there, which should help...
Yes, first reflections are normally the place to start. So, yes, that means sidewall, ceilings (and floor, but, um, that usually isn't practical). As for the rear boundary, the closer you sit to it, the more you will want to treat it. Usually, at least for those who are lucky enough to be away from it, the strength of the reflection from the rear wall is weaker because of the distance travelled. If you sit right up against the back wall, an acoustician would tell you that loads of broadband absorption is called for there.
Curtains can help, just use your ears/judgment. However, they aren't "broadband", and will only absorb a certain set of frequencies, and certainly in the upper register, and extremely little to nothing for bass or midbass waves.
The back wall is actually a triple sliding door... All class, covered by plantation shutters made of wood. No panels there either, other than curtains... Looks like a bass trap table next to the sofa and I'm pretty much done... I have a huge 13x13 sofa that forms a big L though that sits under the window on the left side of the room and wraps around in front of the TV.. Lots of pillows on it too...
All I think you can do is to stay as far away from that back wall as possible.
The only other thing I can do is put some types of panels up above my TV since my ceilings are 14' tall..
You are lucky to have such tall ceilings. I would guess that treating your ceiling is less imperative than it would be for most rooms with much lower ceilings, like 8' for instance.
Really though, just having the intention to treat your room, with the money and time that goes along with it, will hopefully get you to that happy place more quickly.