I think people get too hung up on which amp,
pick one with a long warranty, a good company track record {My b&k's had silly service issues like power button, led light , broken connectors, and since they were "shut down" parts were not available and it just sucked, it also hurts resale value when the comapany is no longer around},
pick an amp with the specs you need, physical size, watts per channel, channel count, rca and or balanced inputs, impedance stability, triggers, ect.
pick an amp that fits in your budget,
pick an amp that has the aesthetics you like,
and pick an amp that you can live with.
For HT, I tend to just go with what works, AVR's get outdated fast, so I say buy the cheapest one with the features you want then if that isnt enough power get an amp for your front 3, this way when your avr quits, or when its outdated you can simply buy another one with the features you want or need...
For music, I like mono blocks and get the power you need, if its for a desk top system and you sit 15"s from the speakers, then get an amp that will give you 95db at 1m, most likely 20-50watts will be more than enough, but if you have a 500sq ft room with 20ft cathedral ceilings, and sit 18 ft from the speakers get a lot of amp 200w to 400w {400w would be about the max for full range speakers for me, and that is probably a lot more than most people would need... 200w seems to be the sweet spot especially if you cross to a sub amp, that will be enough for most any residential room...
Amps are part of hi fi, whether its built into an avr or 7 separates stacked on top of each other, they are an essential part, we all have our preferences, so buy what you like, and when someone asks "which amp should I choose?" answer with your preference, as long as you are honest and know what you like you can't be wrong, if you have no experience with separates and never owned modern pres, pros, and amps, then I would include that in your post, I have owned everything from $2000+ avr's to $3000K 2 channel amps with $1500 preamps. I tend to like to stay at the bottom of the "hi" end, I want a system for $3K that sounds "better" than the systems I listen to that people spend $10K on... Its not hard to do, first thing to get rid of is the "name game", then the "middle man", then the "snake oil" , then look for sales, and you will get your self a decent system for short money...
Looks are also important, some may not care about looks {I don't care too much about the HT system, its a living room, mostly used by "us" and guests usually don't come over to watch TV.... If they do the lights are off so no one can tell my ascends have a horrid black vinyl finish, lol.... With music, I like the amp stands, and fancy speaker wires {that I make myself, for $10 each, lol}, the fancy veneers or piano finishes are a nice touch, a stack of amps, and a preamp with an aluminum face, what ever, just something that looks like poeple put thought into it...
Well thats enough from me, I am rambling, I think I hurt my shoulder again, so I took some pain meds tonight and feel loopy..... sorry if non of this made sense...