@adwilk after i had lunch,i reverse the wire on the center and receiver,hit auto calibrate and it's working!. That's weird,glad i didn't have to drive back to best buy

Now,it's time to adjust every thing to my liking thanks for the help.
You are not done yet!
This issue keeps coming up.
Quite a few speakers with second order crossovers high and low pass, have to have the tweeter wired out of phase to avoid a null at crossover.
The auto cal programs recognize this as out of phase. They seem to focus on the tweeter for phasing rather than the woofer, probably for reasons of time delay.
Now you need to do a battery phase test.
Get a 1.5 volt battery. Now take a speaker lead to a main speaker and remove the grill. When you connect +ve lead to +ve battery terminal and neg to neg the bass cones will fly forward.
Now do the same to the center and see which way the cones fly. I bet they all fly forward. If the center flies back it is faulty.
If all cones fly forward then you need to connect them all normally, as otherwise you will have LF cancellation.
Auto Cal programs do not work with speakers that have to have a reversed phase driver to avoid a null.