Well, a couple of things here as I see it. Software can be tested with respect to what is and isn't audible. After all, human hearing is finite with well known limits.
So, you are left with other factors to consider.
Do you listen at concert ;levels at home? How loud is that to start with. Can your speakers reproduce such levels cleanly? What else does it take?
Can a few speakers duplicate the number of instruments and the never-ending shits on each recording sessions.
How about the space itself? You have to fool the recording/speakers to somehow give you the same sound-field as live.
If the goal is live, you just about have to go to a live event