Reminds me of the joke about the elephant.
There was circus and they wanted make the elephant to shake his head sideways.
Many came and tried and know one could do it.
The a man came and the elephant shook his head from side to side. He would tell no one how he did it.
Later the cicus wanted the elephant to nod his head up and down. This was even harder fro an elephant to do. Again no one could teach the elpant to do it. Ins desperation, they call the man who had madethe elephant to shake his head sideways.
The man came and said "Do you remember me I am the one who hit you in the nuts" and the elephant nodded his head up and down. "Do you want me to hit you in the nuts again?" and the elephant shook his head side-to-side
Life is just too short to worry about the little things
Peace and Serenity,
Forest Man
P.S. - sorry about the poor joke