Hi Pat,
That is fantastic! Admitting you have a problem is the first part of the cure. I was once where you are now Pat and I want you to know it's not your fault. Nobody woke up and said to themselves, "I want shitty bass".
Since I was born good looking instead of rich I couldn't afford to throw money at the situation. I opted to go with a twin for what I already had. Look on eBay and find a twin. I think that is the biggest bang for the buck improvement possible for people in our shoes.
You don't have to live like this,
Alex