is this enough bracing? if not, do you have any ideas? should i double up the wood on the front? double front baffle(is this what it's called)?
Yes, that is very good. That is exactly what I meant. You could epoxy some steel angle to the rear panel on those wooden cross ribs, though.
i'm going to pickup the driver monday. waiting to get a deal on the amp and eq if possible. if not should i get the ep4000 or is it the same as the 2500?
EP2500 and EP4000 appear to be the same. I would just get EP2500. And you know to get the DCX2496 EQ/Crossover unit for this project, right?
do i need dampening material?
Ideally, yes. High density rockwool as annukai specified or Owens Corning 705 (more expensive, however), which both have teh same effect. You will cover these materials with cloth to prevent the fibers from floating around the inside of the cabinet and possible entering the driver vent.
what conectors do i buy to connect the driver to the wire? soldier?
The driver has push down connectors. No soldering to the driver. But you should ideally 'tin' the wire with solder, or the wire will oxidize over time, thus having a bad connection. Tinning the wire will retard oxidation.
what connectors to connect to amp? to eq?
Assuming you have a standard RCA out from your pre-outs: use a RCA to XLR adapter to the DCX input. Or solder up a custom patch cable. Or, use a convertor box like the ART DTI. This is a transformer convertor box that changes the unbalanced RCA output to true balanced XLR output. You use standard RCA patch cable to the DTI input side and a standard XLR patch cable from the DTI output side to the DCX input. Use standard XLR patch cables to connect DCX outputs to EP2500 inputs. Some people end up with ground loop noise/hum/buzz sounds when connecting unbalanced RCA to blanced XLR pro gear. The DTI box also removes this ground loop problem if it would otherwise occur.
any binding post you recommend? if i cut out a hole for the binding post plate do i need to add material behind it?
Use any binding posts/plates you want. Just make sure they accept 12 AWG.
i want a grill. recommend any? do i make a grill frame? buy one?
JL used to make special grills for the W7 drivers, but I can't seem to find them anymore. They just have these silly bar grill kits now. You would be better off making a custom grill. Just be sure to provide A LOT of clearance; that driver has massive excursion.
-Chris