Chances are, they are on the same phase.
One thing that might help.
If you know how to work in your electrical panel, or know someone that does.
First find out what breaker the sub amp, washer, and AC units are on.
If they are on the same phase; swap the sub amp's breaker position, with the breaker directly above, or below it.
That will put it on a different phase. It will help if the other phase is overloaded and not balanced.
As for the AC unit:
Even though the AC unit uses both phases, there is still a chance this will help, if the phases didn't have balanced loads.
You can also ask your wife or girlfriend, if she will let you do the laundry, after you watch a movie.
