Thanks guys. I'm not sold on anything yet, though I just liked the look of that Emotiva setup and thought how nice it would be to have another cool component in my cabinet. Really, it was nothing more than that.
I'm concerned about placement, I just don't have a lot of options. The couch is against the wall and I have a door about 4 feet or so to one side and an archway to a hallway about the same distance from the couch on the other. If I do get subs, they can really only go in one spot - directly next to the couch on either side. I was thinking that room correction thing on the Emotiva could actually serve a purpose in helping the sound integrate better since my placement was so limited.
Either way, I gotta get the wife behind it first. I tried to talk her into that new Elite bd player, but she about lost her tree when i told her it was $2k. I figured I start there, thinking that when I come back with $800 for the other Elite player, it wouldn't sound so bad. The reality is, I'll end up with a Sony 350, but I think blu-ray will be key in getting me my subs. She's starting to like this stuff more and more, but I gotta foster her growth very gently.