I'd emphasize what Majorloser said in his original reply: the key dimension you should be concerned about when picking your screen size is how far from the screen you will be sitting, not how far away the projector is or how long the room is. A 130" screen will be uncomfortable in many ways if you're only sitting a few feet from it. You don't really want to be turning your head side to side to follow the action (or up and down). On the other hand, an 80" screen won't be to impressive if you're along the back wall, 23' away. Don't forget that the wider the screen is, the taller it is, too, so make sure the top wouldn't be bumping the ceiling or the bottom would be below your feet if you've got a recliner.
Following the 1.7 ratio (THX standards), 130" screen puts you about 18' feet away. A 109" screen puts you closer to 15'. Personally, I don't mind being a little closer than the recommendations, but it's up to you. Where do you like to sit in a real theater: front, middle, or back? That should tell you in what direction you can comfortably deviate from this ratio.
Once you've got that sorted out, you can worry about projector lumens and screen brightness, which will be more affected by where you put the projector. Most won't put out a 130" picture unless they're pretty far away. Of course being 18' from a screen will make it seem less bright, regardless of size, than being 15'.
Cheers,
Kevin