Thanks for asking
Okay, still breathing..... It was close.... touch and go...
Down right hostile around the Nimrod mansion for a couple of days.
"We don't have a freaking mansion... What the hell are you thinking.... that thing is waaaaaaaaaaaay to big.... that thing is a piece of furniture... no way, etc.."
Then she saw all the other boxes in the garage (center channel and the 4 bookshelves) and she's REALLY not happy
The benefits (wisdom) gained after being married 20 years = HUNKER DOWN like the Russians at Stalingrad, wait her out.
She's still kind off *****ing about it; she made me move the sub to the other side of the living room (so we could put the Christmas tree in the first spot)
I explained the benefits of all the new av stuff, "it makes me happy, we need this, its our home, etc." I been light hearted (but not an *** kisser) about everything in general so the situation is being "Diffused"
Bottom line, I think Mrs. Nimrod is going to let me keep it