Wow, I hadn't realized there have been so many postings. Jeez thanks guys for all the very nice compliments
It's taken a while but now I'm "almost" where I want it to be. About the only thing I plan on replacing in the next 5 or 6 months is the pre/pro. Don't get me wrong I totally love the way my Sunfire Theater Grand III sounds, but it's starting to get a bit dated with regards to connectivity(no HDMI ins, and no Ethernet) and features.
So right now the pre/pro I have my sights set on is Denon's upcoming AVP-A1HD. It's got everything I need and then some. And I just totally love that it has 6 HDMI inputs, balanced pre-outs, and the ability to stream lossless audio from my PC. And if it sounds as good as I'm thinking it will, it's going to be the one to get.