I think you missed the part where I said I DON'T hvae a wife.... I never have been married... not sure if thats better or worse... I love women, just haven't found the right one yet.. 40 this year, raising my son on my own.. I guess my time is just filled up with him and work and getting my house in order... hmmm sooner or later I'll meet that right girl, but until then, hehhehe I'll just meet all the rest of em..... :)