I've been reading threads here for a bit, and I find that there is alot of snobbery and elitism from some members, I just wanted to say that just because you're well off or rich and can afford lots of expensive **** doesn't give you the right to act like a snob. This isn't directed at anyone in particular nor is it meant in a malicious way, I enjoy posting here occasionally and reading, it's just funny how some users reluctantly share knowledge and advice. Everyone starts from the bottom with little experience and knowledge... it's easy to forget that. All that should matter is a general interest in the subject. Arrogance & sarcasm don't mix well, some would call that being a smart arse.
I'm not willing to take the time and read through your previous posts to see what replies may have given you this feeling. What I'll tell you is that in my experience here the regular members rarely act snobbish or elitist, unless they are Bose bashing. When that does occur is usually only when some one prods them with statements about the superior nature of inferior products.
The advice here is given freely and willingly to all visitors and new members and the group here will often help people fit equipment into their budget. Generally if people say something is junk it is because they have had bad personal experiences with that product or it has a known reputation for being junk. Not because it is beneath them. I have seen several recommendations for cheap speakers and subwoofers, especially for bedrooms. If members are trying to steer you into "better" equipment, it may be to prevent you from wasting money by buying something you will most likely be unhappy with or is a poor value for the cost.
Elite snobs would not commonly recommend $500 receivers or similar priced speaker sets. They would tell you to spend upwards of $10K for an entry level system and tell you that $1K power cords will make a huge difference in your listening experience. You won't find much of that here.
No one likes a whiner, so what ever's bothering you I say, "get over it." You are welcome in the community here, please avoid unfounded generalizations. You will find if you are civil you will generally be treated the same.
Jack