I always thought that I wasn't evolved enough because I didn't go for multichannel. My friends with HT pretty much just seemed to brush it off as incomplete or, a work in progress. They figured I was just late to the party, when truth be told, I have been listening to music for much longer, and certainly much more frequently than they ever have. They also made comments to the effect that I just didn't know what I was missing yet. I have listened to their systems before and even sat down for some movies with them. Still, I couldn't wait to get back to my own systems and ways.
Few years back when I started getting into more custom 2-channel equipment and methods, I was also doing family/friends bbq on most weekends leaving invitations pretty much open so people were here more often. They finally got curious enough to hear my speakers. That was as far as they could figure on what they were going to be listening to and that all they were going to hear was two separate speakers with subs mixed in nilly willy. None of them had ever listened near field beyond some tiny and included, pc desktop speakers. From the very first intro of the first song, you could tell it hooked them. They just stopped in their tracks. They had no idea that two speakers alone could offer any 3d or immersive effects. One friend's wife just blurted out loud to her husband with. . ."You need to fix our music."
Since then, two have added a stand alone 2-channel (one just bought $4k worth of new JBL L100 Classics for the task) system much in essence of my own, and nearfield at that. On weekends, we get to chatting online and trading music choices into the wee hrs. The thing both couples have in common with each other is they had not listened to music this much since their teen years and now they are all about it and HT has since taken the back burner.
45 years on, and I have never really felt I missed anything. Two channel has been enough to keep me hooked since the '70s. I never felt it lacked any dimension from what I had heard live and in fact prefer recorded studio more than live music.
There has been plenty of info and trends to push me towards more evolved technology but this old way just continues to deliver. I even end up slumming it with lesser quality speakers and gear than my main system at times, all of which still manage to deliver that immersive stereo image regardless.