Honestly, I don't specialize in rabbit holes. That guy I have a strong feeling was putting one over, or attempting to. Had been through a hundred pairs of speakers, so he claimed. Come on Dan sharpen up your BS alarms! May be you have been conditioned by all these expert manipulators you deal with daily.
He probably has listened to a lot of speakers I had before I joined here. Didn't make me an expert but that doesn't mean that I hadn't.
Not only that a lot of new guys will ghost this site before they even come on and already will be defensive towards certain members they notice come at people a certain way. I know I ghosted this site for months before I joined I was that nervous about it. And I definitely picked up on who was easy to talk to and who wasn't
Let me play this out for you.
New guy comes on the forum has an issue stuck on a new reciever for example. Instead of just answering his questions everyone tells him it's all in your head you really can't hear a difference anyway. Which people are correct on this to a degree but new guy doesn't understand
Says well I've listened to this or this or this thought I heard a difference
Then he's told well have you double blind tested this. According to measurements they all sound the same. New guy just really wants to know if it is a necessary switch or if he's okay in buying new item
New guy gets irritated nobody is answering his questions he gets told he is an idiot politely but still an idiot he gets pissed off a back and forth ensues and then we have another new member off the forum telling others about his negative experience with the forum and in this hobby
This happens over and over I can almost predict it down to the tee. What are we ASR where we berate every new guy who doesn't prioritize SINAD numbers the way ASR members worship them? A little unfair to ASR but it does happen on that site and I'm just using it as an over the top example
What is the problem with answering his question going over the options he asked and at the end just politely saying he may not tell a difference and then tell him how he might save money but if not, if he wants to spend it, here's what we think he should buy
If he's a troll we flex our knowledge for new members and give out good info to save money or give out info on new products for members to think about buying. And we look cool doing it. If he's not a troll we got an enthusiastic new member with money to burn in this hobby and while we are having fun with him we can even give him the right knowledge in the process.
It's a win win either way for Audioholics and audio in general for us to start out kind in our approach.
Same as in my job. No matter how the patient acts if I'm positive in my approach it's a win win for me with either outcome positive or negative. And usually it's a better chance for my patient to end up in a win win as well.
It's not that hard to not come across elitist to a new guy or like were talking down on him just beating him down with our knowledge. And we lose nothing by doing this.
Look I can't control what others do on here I wouldn't even think to try but if we don't change the way we come at newbies I'm concerned audio really is going to die off and we'll all just be a few old farts sitting in our echo chamber just chirping at each other
ive seen this same thread played out too many times to know it's not all on the newbie. Like
@PENG said earlier it goes both ways. And it happens too much for all of them to be trolls. Which means we have run off some newcomers. I find that bothersome. You guys do what you want. I'm just expressing my concerns here