This is insightful. I'm new to this world so learning that I don't have to match is a good thing since I might have not options now.
The only matching you should do is between the Mains and Center, and possibly Surrounds if you want.
Agree with Pogre: good quality Bass, clean, linear and free from distortions is a surprising thing. It is both powerful and subtle. Some people think their Sub isn’t working right because they suddenly don’t hear the distortion in the sound the way they are used too.
That is an important distinction. When most people complain about Subs, it is the rattles and other weird sounds that bother people. While you will still make sh!t rattle with a very good Sub, it’s different and usually happens at much lower frequencies in my experience.