There are many issues that can be at play, here, and without better information, we honestly cannot help.
1: YPAO is not correctly set up.
1B: YPAO measurements were not accurate.
2: Speakers are not properly assigned.
3: Surround speakers are FX Bi-Poles that can be messing with your expectations
4: room set up and physical speaker placement
5: ...I'm losing track myself.
Please understand, @Musicman61 , we get a lot of people that ask questions and dip or just do what they want after getting advice, etc.
We offer to help because we are truly interested in helping elevate your experience.
That all three of us are telling you your descriptions aren't helping should be clear.
Rather than going all tribal-speak, or arguing about bias, we can still help if you want.