Regardless I think the vulnerable need to be protected but I also think there has to be a better balance then this no one is going to change my mind on this
I think (hope at least) everyone agrees with this.
The big question is what is the "better balance"?
This is an extremely difficult question with huge consequences if we get it wrong. But what makes it so difficult is:
1) We still don't know that much about it - as you point out the VA study is not a full blown rigorous study that FDA would make decisions from, it is the type of study you might do to test whether it would be appropriate to invest the money required for a full-blown study. This is a fair example of teh status of many other studies that are mostly in "pre-study" phase.
In two years, we will have a very nice database of info on the virus. If we had that today, you and I could probably come up with a better plan that the experts having to deal with all of the current unknowns!.
2) I think a viable plan would be pretty easy if we had access to unlimited testing; however, there is currently a limited amount of reagents (required to perform the testing) available and most of it is already spoken for on a worldwide basis. The US was late getting to the "reagent store", so even as the number of tests performed here is growing, it will soon reach a different hard limit! But if we had plentiful testing it would make many of the questions in reopening the economy much easier to answer - a "better balance" could be had.
3) The proposed digital/phone tracking tools will help in a similar fashion, but they are not yet a reality. I fear they may be delayed by (legitimate, but not as important as fighting CV, IMHO) privacy concerns! This could end up being another pissing match with people who think CV equates with flu l giving priority to privacy.
So in the end, the committees of people who do this intelligently will make a lot of assumptions and watch predetermined metrics carefully with an ABORT button in their hands. As things progress, they will gain better understanding and the assumptions will be confirmed or debunked and the plan will be modified. It will have to be a "work in progress" as the experts gather more and more knowledge.
I am more than a little concerned that the people responsible for the business side of opening the economy were picked by Trump, himself, because I fear that they will be more attentive to Trump's ideas/lead than the science/facts. In the end that will hurt opening the economy more than helping it, but I honestly believe Trump is more worried about positioning himself to win the election in November than he is worried about long-term results/consequences!