Well now I have 10 subs in my 8,000 CF HT.
But in my previous living room, I only used one 10" sub - and the living room was very open to 3 sides - formal living, formal dining, kitchen, breakfast.
There is definitely a lot more to it than just looking at the volume of the total OPEN area. Sure, total volume factors in. But I think the distance you sit from your sub and the location of the sub to the corners/walls matter more.
And, of course, the actual subwoofer also matters.
But it's not just about total volume of OPEN room vs size of the subwoofer.
I think OVERKILL applies to not only amps, but also to speakers, subs, and everything else in this hobby.