FWIW,
Getting away from "ten thousand dollar!" stereo systems, I have an old Altec Lansing computer stereo (2 + bass) with the bass/amplifier under my desk about 2 feet from my feet. I can really feel it! Try a sub right in front of your feet, , , , at least try.
I've replaced the bass speaker twice ('cause of the dust down there), thats how much I like it.
-c-