I'm sure you realize that some people hate Room EQ and some people love it.
The key is to try it. Then see for yourself if you prefer it or not.
I also think that if you don't like Audyssey XT32, then chances are you won't like any of the other Room EQ either. The reason I say that is because I have heard most of the Room EQ's available. And I didn't prefer any one of them, not just Audyssey XT32.
So don't feel so bad.